Pastor’s Message for December 2023

Blessed Advent, Friends!

The year has gone by too fast! It seems like just yesterday we were starting a new year together, and now we are in the midst of the Advent season. Where did the time go?

I share with many of you the desire to move on from whatever it is I’m doing and getting to the next thing. I don’t like waiting. Too often I skip to the end. I live my life with my finger on the fast forward button. Whatever it is I’m doing, it seems like I’m always looking to what’s next. When I do that, I often miss out on the blessings that God has for me in the current moment.

Too often I only see God’s activity in my life in the rearview mirror. But there’s a reason the current time is called the ‘present!’ It’s easy to say “Live each day like it’s a gift.” It’s much harder to take the time to be intentional about enjoying each moment. I find quiet moments awkward and try to fill them with noise. It’s hard for me to sit still and appreciate the silence.

Teach us to number our days aright, that we may gain a heart of wisdom.

Psalm 90:12

Perhaps that is why we have a season like Advent? Advent is a liturgical season of preparation for the coming of Christ which culminates at Christmas Day. Too often, Advent comes and goes and becomes a month-long celebration of Christmas. We light some candles and put up a tree and all too quickly move on to the holiday and beyond. Advent provides us with the kind of space meant for meaningful reflection. Rather than looking beyond the season to the excitement of Christmas Day, Advent is mean to be a deliberate month-long journey. Yes, we know the destination is exciting, but Advent is meant to provide us with the space to enjoy each day as a gift.

So my challenge this season, for you and for myself as well, is to take the time during this Advent to do as the Psalmist says, to allow God to teach us the blessing of the present.

God loves you, and so do I,
Pastor Jim

Coming Up…

< February 2026 >
Sun Mon Tue Wed Thu Fri Sat
1Worship w/ Communion 11am from 11:00 am to 12:00 pm
Holy Communion Offered Church Sanctuary + Google calendarKids Sunday School ~11:15am from 11:15 am to 12:00 pm
Begins immediately following the children's message during 11am worship in the sanctuary + Google calendarVBS Kick-Off Meeting 12pm from 12:00 pm to 1:00 pm
For volunteers to review plans for VBS and receive materials + Google calendar
2 3Bowling Night @Baden Bowl from 7:00 pm to 9:00 pm
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4No Youth Group Tonight from 6:00 pm to 8:00 pm
Cancelled due to weather + Google calendarEves Meeting 6:30pm from 6:30 pm to 8:00 pm
Evening women’s group of Monaca & Aliquippa First UMCs
Meeting location alternates between the two churches.
Aliquippa First UMC: Jan, Mar, May, July, Sept, Nov
Monaca UMC: Feb, Apr, June, Aug, Oct, Dec
+ Google calendarAA Meeting 7pm from 7:00 pm to 8:00 pm
Meeting of Alcoholics Anonymous Fellowship Hall + Google calendar
5Busy Hands 1pm from 1:00 pm to 3:00 pm
Knitting/crochet Group Carey Community Center + Google calendar
6NA Meeting 8pm from 8:00 pm to 9:00 pm
Meeting of Narcotics Anonymous Fellowship Hall + Google calendar
7AA Meeting 10:30am from 10:30 am to 11:30 am
Meeting of Alcoholics Anonymous Fellowship Hall + Google calendar
8Worship 11am from 11:00 am to 12:00 pm
Traditional worship, including prayer and the singing of traditional hymns. Church Sanctuary + Google calendarKids Sunday School ~11:15am from 11:15 am to 12:00 pm
Begins immediately following the children's message during 11am worship in the sanctuary + Google calendarSouper Sunday Soup Fellowship 12pm from 12:00 pm to 2:00 pm
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9Book Club 7pm @Aliquippa First from 7:00 pm to 8:15 pm
"Reading United Methodists" monthly book club with snacks, books, and fellowship!
This month's pick: Captains Courageous by Rudyard Kipling*
Discussion led by: Dave Wilson
*Possible movie night! 2816 Brodhead Rd, Aliquippa 15001 + Google calendar
10Food Pantry Distribution 11am-Noon from 11:00 am to 12:00 pm
Free and open to all Monaca area and Center Township residents + Google calendarBowling Night @Baden Bowl from 7:00 pm to 9:00 pm
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11"PhDs" 6:30pm @Aliquippa First, Lounge from 6:30 pm to 7:30 pm
For "Projects Half Done" - knitting/crochet group; 2nd & 4th Wednesday of the month at Aliquippa First UMC + Google calendarAA Meeting 7pm from 7:00 pm to 8:00 pm
Meeting of Alcoholics Anonymous Fellowship Hall + Google calendar
12 13NA Meeting 8pm from 8:00 pm to 9:00 pm
Meeting of Narcotics Anonymous Fellowship Hall + Google calendar
14Happy Valentine's Day all day
+ Google calendarCoffee Mugs & Kids Club 10am from 10:00 am to 12:00 pm
2nd Saturday of each month. Fun for the kids; caffeine for the adults! Carey Community Center + Google calendarAA Meeting 10:30am from 10:30 am to 11:30 am
Meeting of Alcoholics Anonymous Fellowship Hall + Google calendar
15Worship 11am from 11:00 am to 12:00 pm
Traditional worship, including prayer and the singing of traditional hymns. Church Sanctuary + Google calendarKids Sunday School Valentine's Party ~11:15am from 11:15 am to 12:00 pm
*Start time is approximate. Kids Sunday School begins immediately following the Children's message during 11am worship. + Google calendarInformational Meeting on Church Membership After Worship from 12:00 pm to 12:30 pm
For anyone considering membership at Monaca UMC + Google calendarMAT Meeting 12pm from 12:00 pm to 1:00 pm
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16 17Hymn Sing 1:30pm @Brighton Rehab from 1:30 pm to 2:30 pm
Brighton Wellness & Rehab + Google calendarBowling Night @Baden Bowl from 7:00 pm to 9:00 pm
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18No UWF Meeting This Month from 1:00 pm to 2:00 pm
+ Google calendarAsh Wednesday Worship 7pm from 7:00 pm to 8:00 pm
Open to the public + Google calendarAA Meeting 7pm from 7:00 pm to 8:00 pm
Meeting of Alcoholics Anonymous Fellowship Hall + Google calendar
19Newsletter Deadline Day all day
Please submit any items for inclusion in the church's newsletter, THE MESSENGER, by the 3rd Thursday of the month. + Google calendarBusy Hands 1pm from 1:00 pm to 3:00 pm
Knitting/crochet Group Carey Community Center + Google calendar
20NA Meeting 8pm from 8:00 pm to 9:00 pm
Meeting of Narcotics Anonymous Fellowship Hall + Google calendar
21AA Meeting 10:30am from 10:30 am to 11:30 am
Meeting of Alcoholics Anonymous Fellowship Hall + Google calendar
22Worship 11am from 11:00 am to 12:00 pm
Traditional worship, including prayer and the singing of traditional hymns. Church Sanctuary + Google calendarKids Sunday School ~11:15am from 11:15 am to 12:00 pm
Begins immediately following the children's message during 11am worship in the sanctuary + Google calendar
23 24Bowling Night @Baden Bowl from 7:00 pm to 9:00 pm
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25Community Lenten Luncheon 12pm from 12:00 pm to 1:00 pm
Lunch at noon followed by a short reflection presented by Pastor Jim Sands
Free and open to the public; goodwill offering accepted.
Carey Community Center, 813 Indiana Avenue, Monaca, PA 15061 + Google calendar"PhDs" 6:30pm @Aliquippa First, Lounge from 6:30 pm to 7:30 pm
For "Projects Half Done" - knitting/crochet group; 2nd & 4th Wednesday of the month at Aliquippa First UMC + Google calendarAA Meeting 7pm from 7:00 pm to 8:00 pm
Meeting of Alcoholics Anonymous Fellowship Hall + Google calendar
26 27NA Meeting 8pm from 8:00 pm to 9:00 pm
Meeting of Narcotics Anonymous Fellowship Hall + Google calendar
28AA Meeting 10:30am from 10:30 am to 11:30 am
Meeting of Alcoholics Anonymous Fellowship Hall + Google calendar