Pastor’s Message for May 2021

A young executive, working from home, logged on to her computer to begin a ZOOM board meeting.  After hours of reports, projections, and minor debate, all agreed it was time for a lunch break.  Assuming she was following ZOOM etiquette by turning off her video and muting her sound, the young executive went about the business of preparing her lunch.  Mistakenly, she forgot to mute her laptop and began a chorus of the “I hate my job and coworker” blues.   While speaking on the phone to a close friend, she ranted about how she was not respected at her office and how her ideas were pushed to the side in favor of others with more experience.  The young executive then complained about how her boss was getting older and not adapting to the times.  His business IQ needed a “21st century makeover” if the company was going to continue to be a leader in the industry.  Returning to her computer after lunch, she soon realized she had not muted her laptop and her lunchtime rant was heard by some of her colleagues.  Her heart sank when she realized they knew what she thought about them and how she viewed her work at the company. 

“Don’t be selfish; don’t try to impress others. Be humble, thinking of others as better than yourselves.  Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too.”

-Philippians 2:3-4

Many people, even believers, live only to make a good impression on others or to please themselves.  But selfishness brings conflict.  Paul stressed spiritual unity, asking the Philippians to love one another and to be one in spirit and purpose.  The young executive could only see her input as valuable for the forward movement of the company.  Although her business acumen was on par with her colleagues, her inexperience may have kept her from viewing the whole picture.  For example, in my personal experience, attending seminary did not prepare me to pastor a church.  Although I have the tools in my educational toolbox to shepherd a church, I count on the knowledge of more experienced pastors to guide me along ministry’s winding road.  Navigating God’s winding road also requires help.  Having a relationship with Christ involves having a loving relationship with others.  To be involved in a relationship is to have a connection with another person, a connection based on love, humility, and mutual respect.  Therefore, a Christ-centered relationship cannot be one sided.  We must be interested in the well being of others, not just ourselves.  Selfishness can ruin a church, but genuine humility can build it. We are to lay aside our own wants and consider others’ needs as more important than our own.  Unlike the young executive, if we look at the big picture and place others’ interests before our own, we will show Christ’s love and humility to the world.  Now we have a perfect portrait of the church.

God’s blessing in all we do,
Pastor Ross

Coming Up…

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Sun Mon Tue Wed Thu Fri Sat
1Worship w/ Communion 11am from 11:00 am to 12:00 pm
Holy Communion Offered Church Sanctuary + Google calendarKids Sunday School ~11:15am from 11:15 am to 12:00 pm
Begins immediately following the children's message during 11am worship in the sanctuary + Google calendarVBS Kick-Off Meeting 12pm from 12:00 pm to 1:00 pm
For volunteers to review plans for VBS and receive materials + Google calendar
2 3Bowling Night @Baden Bowl from 7:00 pm to 9:00 pm
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4No Youth Group Tonight from 6:00 pm to 8:00 pm
Cancelled due to weather + Google calendarEves Meeting 6:30pm from 6:30 pm to 8:00 pm
Evening women’s group of Monaca & Aliquippa First UMCs
Meeting location alternates between the two churches.
Aliquippa First UMC: Jan, Mar, May, July, Sept, Nov
Monaca UMC: Feb, Apr, June, Aug, Oct, Dec
+ Google calendarAA Meeting 7pm from 7:00 pm to 8:00 pm
Meeting of Alcoholics Anonymous Fellowship Hall + Google calendar
5Busy Hands 1pm from 1:00 pm to 3:00 pm
Knitting/crochet Group Carey Community Center + Google calendar
6NA Meeting 8pm from 8:00 pm to 9:00 pm
Meeting of Narcotics Anonymous Fellowship Hall + Google calendar
7AA Meeting 10:30am from 10:30 am to 11:30 am
Meeting of Alcoholics Anonymous Fellowship Hall + Google calendar
8Worship 11am from 11:00 am to 12:00 pm
Traditional worship, including prayer and the singing of traditional hymns. Church Sanctuary + Google calendarKids Sunday School ~11:15am from 11:15 am to 12:00 pm
Begins immediately following the children's message during 11am worship in the sanctuary + Google calendarSouper Sunday Soup Fellowship 12pm from 12:00 pm to 2:00 pm
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9Book Club 7pm @Aliquippa First from 7:00 pm to 8:15 pm
"Reading United Methodists" monthly book club with snacks, books, and fellowship!
This month's pick: Captains Courageous by Rudyard Kipling*
Discussion led by: Dave Wilson
*Possible movie night! 2816 Brodhead Rd, Aliquippa 15001 + Google calendar
10Food Pantry Distribution 11am-Noon from 11:00 am to 12:00 pm
Free and open to all Monaca area and Center Township residents + Google calendarBowling Night @Baden Bowl from 7:00 pm to 9:00 pm
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11"PhDs" 6:30pm @Aliquippa First, Lounge from 6:30 pm to 7:30 pm
For "Projects Half Done" - knitting/crochet group; 2nd & 4th Wednesday of the month at Aliquippa First UMC + Google calendarAA Meeting 7pm from 7:00 pm to 8:00 pm
Meeting of Alcoholics Anonymous Fellowship Hall + Google calendar
12 13NA Meeting 8pm from 8:00 pm to 9:00 pm
Meeting of Narcotics Anonymous Fellowship Hall + Google calendar
14Happy Valentine's Day all day
+ Google calendarCoffee Mugs & Kids Club 10am from 10:00 am to 12:00 pm
2nd Saturday of each month. Fun for the kids; caffeine for the adults! Carey Community Center + Google calendarAA Meeting 10:30am from 10:30 am to 11:30 am
Meeting of Alcoholics Anonymous Fellowship Hall + Google calendar
15Worship 11am from 11:00 am to 12:00 pm
Traditional worship, including prayer and the singing of traditional hymns. Church Sanctuary + Google calendarKids Sunday School Valentine's Party ~11:15am from 11:15 am to 12:00 pm
*Start time is approximate. Kids Sunday School begins immediately following the Children's message during 11am worship. + Google calendarInformational Meeting on Church Membership After Worship from 12:00 pm to 12:30 pm
For anyone considering membership at Monaca UMC + Google calendarMAT Meeting 12pm from 12:00 pm to 1:00 pm
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16 17Hymn Sing 1:30pm @Brighton Rehab from 1:30 pm to 2:30 pm
Brighton Wellness & Rehab + Google calendarBowling Night @Baden Bowl from 7:00 pm to 9:00 pm
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18No UWF Meeting This Month from 1:00 pm to 2:00 pm
+ Google calendarAsh Wednesday Worship 7pm from 7:00 pm to 8:00 pm
Open to the public + Google calendarAA Meeting 7pm from 7:00 pm to 8:00 pm
Meeting of Alcoholics Anonymous Fellowship Hall + Google calendar
19Newsletter Deadline Day all day
Please submit any items for inclusion in the church's newsletter, THE MESSENGER, by the 3rd Thursday of the month. + Google calendarBusy Hands 1pm from 1:00 pm to 3:00 pm
Knitting/crochet Group Carey Community Center + Google calendar
20NA Meeting 8pm from 8:00 pm to 9:00 pm
Meeting of Narcotics Anonymous Fellowship Hall + Google calendar
21AA Meeting 10:30am from 10:30 am to 11:30 am
Meeting of Alcoholics Anonymous Fellowship Hall + Google calendar
22Worship 11am from 11:00 am to 12:00 pm
Traditional worship, including prayer and the singing of traditional hymns. Church Sanctuary + Google calendarKids Sunday School ~11:15am from 11:15 am to 12:00 pm
Begins immediately following the children's message during 11am worship in the sanctuary + Google calendar
23 24Bowling Night @Baden Bowl from 7:00 pm to 9:00 pm
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25Community Lenten Luncheon 12pm from 12:00 pm to 1:00 pm
Lunch at noon followed by a short reflection presented by Pastor Jim Sands
Free and open to the public; goodwill offering accepted.
Carey Community Center, 813 Indiana Avenue, Monaca, PA 15061 + Google calendar"PhDs" 6:30pm @Aliquippa First, Lounge from 6:30 pm to 7:30 pm
For "Projects Half Done" - knitting/crochet group; 2nd & 4th Wednesday of the month at Aliquippa First UMC + Google calendarAA Meeting 7pm from 7:00 pm to 8:00 pm
Meeting of Alcoholics Anonymous Fellowship Hall + Google calendar
26 27NA Meeting 8pm from 8:00 pm to 9:00 pm
Meeting of Narcotics Anonymous Fellowship Hall + Google calendar
28AA Meeting 10:30am from 10:30 am to 11:30 am
Meeting of Alcoholics Anonymous Fellowship Hall + Google calendar